Abigail calms David's anger and becomes one of his wives
|.1 ¶ And Samuel died; and all the Israelites were gathered together, and lamented him, and buried him in his house at Ramah. And David arose, and went down to the wilderness of Paran.|| 1 -
his house More likely "in his burial place." nu1911ff.
1 - Wilderness of Paran From Southern Judah across toward Sinai – a hostile area nu1012.
¶ And there was a man in Maon, whose possessions were in Carmel; and
the man was very great, and he had three thousand sheep, and a thousand
goats: and he was shearing his sheep in Carmel.
.3 Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb.
| 2 -
A town on the watershed divide between the Mediterranean and the Dead Sea.
3 - Name Means "foolish." He probably didn't get this name from his parents.
| 4 And David heard in
the wilderness that Nabal did shear his sheep.
5 And David sent out ten young men, and David said unto the young men, Get you up to Carmel, and go to Nabal, and greet him in my name:
6 And thus shall ye say to him that liveth in prosperity, Peace be both to thee, and peace be to thine house, and peace be unto all that thou hast.
7 And now I have heard that thou hast shearers: now thy shepherds which were with us, we hurt them not, neither was there ought missing unto them, all the while they were in Carmel.
8 Ask thy young men, and they will shew thee. Wherefore let the young men find favour in thine eyes: for we come in a good day: give, I pray thee, whatsoever cometh to thine hand unto thy servants, and to thy son David.
8 - Give Sounds like extortion, but not because he had done this for Nabal's men v7.
8 - Give ... and to thy son David This was a form of courtesy.
| 9 And when David's young
men came, they spake to Nabal according to all those words in the name
of David, and ceased.
10 And Nabal answered David's servants, and said, Who is David? and who is the son of Jesse? there be many servants now a days that break away every man from his master.
11 Shall I then take my bread, and my water, and my flesh that I have killed for my shearers, and give it unto men, whom I know not whence they be?
|10 - Who is David? Not the best tact. We are reminded of Egypt ex0502.|
| 12 ¶ So David's young
men turned their way, and went again, and came and told him all those sayings.
13 And David said unto his men, Gird ye on every man his sword. And they girded on every man his sword; and David also girded on his sword: and there went up after David about four hundred men; and two hundred abode by the stuff.
|13 - David said ... sword This plan for revenge was neither wise nor the behavior of a worshipper of the true God.|
| 14 But one of the young
men told Abigail, Nabal's wife, saying, Behold, David sent messengers out
of the wilderness to salute our master; and he railed on them.
15 But the men were very good unto us, and we were not hurt, neither missed we any thing, as long as we were conversant with them, when we were in the fields:
16 They were a wall unto us both by night and day, all the while we were with them keeping the sheep.
.17 Now therefore know and consider what thou wilt do; for evil is determined against our master, and against all his household: for he is such a son of Belial, that a man cannot speak to him.
|17 - Belial The word is literally "wickedness" or "worthlessness." It was later interpreted this way. Belial would be Satan 2co0615. Of course "son of" may be seen to equate "wickedness" with Satan. In any case, we see one totally given to sin mt1231.|
¶ Then Abigail made haste, and took two hundred loaves, and two bottles
of wine, and five sheep ready dressed, and five measures of parched corn,
and an hundred clusters of raisins, and two hundred cakes of figs, and
laid them on asses.
19 And she said unto her servants, Go on before me; behold, I come after you. But she told not her husband Nabal.
20 And it was so, as she rode on the ass, that she came down by the covert of the hill, and, behold, David and his men came down against her; and she met them.
21 Now David had said, Surely in vain have I kept all that this fellow hath in the wilderness, so that nothing was missed of all that pertained unto him: and he hath requited me evil for good.
.22 So and more also do God unto the enemies of David, if I leave of all that pertain to him by the morning light any that pisseth against the wall.
- Five measures Or "five seahs." This unit is about 7 liters.
18 - Abigail She teaches us a lesson in tact pr1501.
18 - Clusters Or "lumps." Compare the "cakes" of 1ch1240.
19 - Go on before me "People in the East always try to produce an effect by their presents, loading on several beasts what might be easily carried by one, and bringing them forward, article by article, in succession. Abigail not only sent her servants in this way, but resolved to go in person, following her present, as is commonly done, to watch the impression which her munificence would produce." (JFB).
| 23 And when Abigail
saw David, she hasted, and lighted off the ass, and fell before David on
her face, and bowed herself to the ground,
24 And fell at his feet, and said, Upon me, my lord, upon me let this iniquity be: and let thine handmaid, I pray thee, speak in thine audience, and hear the words of thine handmaid.
.25 Let not my lord, I pray thee, regard this man of Belial, even Nabal: for as his name is, so is he; Nabal is his name, and folly is with him: but I thine handmaid saw not the young men of my lord, whom thou didst send.
- Upon me To cool David's anger.
25 - As his name is See verse 3.
Now therefore, my lord, as the LORD liveth, and as thy soul liveth, seeing
the LORD hath withholden thee from coming to shed blood, and from avenging
thyself with thine own hand, now let thine enemies, and they that seek
evil to my lord, be as Nabal.
27 And now this blessing which thine handmaid hath brought unto my lord, let it even be given unto the young men that follow my lord.
28 I pray thee, forgive the trespass of thine handmaid: for the LORD will certainly make my lord a sure house; because my lord fighteth the battles of the LORD, and evil hath not been found in thee all thy days.
|26 - Lord hath withholden David needed the restraining influence of the Holy Spirit. It is good to see that Abigail recognized the Lord. As we pray each morning, we may ask for this blessing. See lu1104.|
Yet a man is risen to pursue thee, and to seek thy soul: but the soul of
my lord shall be bound in the bundle of life with the LORD thy God; and
the souls of thine enemies, them shall he sling out, as out of the middle
of a sling.
.30 And it shall come to pass, when the LORD shall have done to my lord according to all the good that he hath spoken concerning thee, and shall have appointed thee ruler over Israel;
31 That this shall be no grief unto thee, nor offence of heart unto my lord, either that thou hast shed blood causeless, or that my lord hath avenged himself: but when the LORD shall have dealt well with my lord, then remember thine handmaid.
- Yet a man Or "should a man." Abigail was thinking about
29 - Bundle of life From seror hachchayyim The expression is apparently from the custom of a bundle of valuables tied into an individual's clothing.
| 32 ¶ And David said to
Abigail, Blessed be the LORD God of Israel, which sent thee this day to
33 And blessed be thy advice, and blessed be thou, which hast kept me this day from coming to shed blood, and from avenging myself with mine own hand.
34 For in very deed, as the LORD God of Israel liveth, which hath kept me back from hurting thee, except thou hadst hasted and come to meet me, surely there had not been left unto Nabal by the morning light any that pisseth against the wall.
35 So David received of her hand that which she had brought him, and said unto her, Go up in peace to thine house; see, I have hearkened to thy voice, and have accepted thy person.
|32 - Blessed ... Lord ... sent "Transported by passion and blinded by revenge, he was on the eve of perpetrating a great injury. Doubtless, the timely appearance and prudent address of Abigail were greatly instrumental in changing his purpose. At all events, it was the means of opening his eyes to the moral character of the course on which he had been impetuously rushing; and in accepting her present, he speaks with lively satisfaction as well as gratitude to Abigail, for having relieved him from bloodshed." (JFB).|
| 36 ¶ And Abigail came
to Nabal; and, behold, he held a feast in his house, like the feast of
a king; and Nabal's heart was merry within him, for he was very drunken:
wherefore she told him nothing, less or more, until the morning light.
37 But it came to pass in the morning, when the wine was gone out of Nabal, and his wife had told him these things, that his heart died within him, and he became as a stone.
.38 And it came to pass about ten days after, that the LORD smote Nabal, that he died.
- Feast Our bodies are given by the Lord. To abuse them with
alcohol and overeating is sinful.
37 - Heart died Probably unconscious. Stone Paralyzed.
| 39 And when David heard
that Nabal was dead, he said, Blessed be the LORD, that hath pleaded the
cause of my reproach from the hand of Nabal, and hath kept his servant
from evil: for the LORD hath returned the wickedness of Nabal upon his
own head. And David sent and communed with Abigail, to take her to him
40 And when the servants of David were come to Abigail to Carmel, they spake unto her, saying, David sent us unto thee, to take thee to him to wife.
41 And she arose, and bowed herself on her face to the earth, and said, Behold, let thine handmaid be a servant to wash the feet of the servants of my lord.
42 And Abigail hasted, and arose, and rode upon an ass, with five damsels of hers that went after her; and she went after the messengers of David, and became his wife.
43 David also took Ahinoam of Jezreel; and they were also both of them his wives.
- Abigail To take her. "This unceremonious proceeding was
quite in the style of Eastern monarchs, who no sooner take a fancy for
a lady than they dispatch a messenger to intimate their royal wishes that
she should henceforth reside in the palace; and her duty is implicitly
to obey. David's conduct shows that the manners of the Eastern nations
were already imitated by the great men in Israel; and that the morality
of the times which God permitted, gave its sanction to the practice of
polygamy. His marriage with Abigail brought him a rich estate." (JFB).
42 - Became his wife David was already married 1sa1827. This was not unusual in that time. Of course those who put God first could have seen the sorrow that accompanies polygamy.
43 - Both of them his wives Not God's plan as we know from Eden. See ge16.
|44 But Saul had given Michal his daughter, David's wife, to Phalti the son of Laish, which was of Gallim.||But Saul David later took Michal from Phalti 2sa0314f.|